Almost 30 years ago today my family farm was destroyed by a massive tornado. Several barns, a farmhouse, once towering trees, many precious animals all perished.
My parents survived. The 2 farm dogs, knowing what was to come, herded my mother into the pantry. The pantry that was without windows. They herded her in moments before the big crash when the 'eye' of the storm smashed into the farm.
She heard only the crash which seemed to go on forever. Minutes later when it was all over, she came out into the kitchen which was now without doors, windows and a partial roof.
My father had been in one of the barns and when my mother found him, he was mangled as someone in a massive car wreck.
He survived although almost didn't make it through the night. A number of operations later and a several week stay in the hospital, he returned to the farm & began a slow process back to health.
Throughout the years, they slowly rebuilt the farm.
As I write this, I still feel the pain of it all. The trauma that people go through in times like this, the loss & the pain is insurmountable.
Many people the day after the tornado came to help. They brought construction equipment & food. They came to help clean. They came to offer condolences. Some, unfortunately, came to rob us. Some stole farm tools. A few men approached us to purchase the farm at 20 cents on the dollar.
I also remember the smell. No one talks about the smell after a devastation like this. It had a screaming, ammonia smell. A bad smell.
Today no matter where I am if I see dark clouds & feel heavy winds, I panic & run to shelter. Some of my other family members have said the same.
To the Oklahoma people & everyone else that has gone through this, I "feel" for you. It's a trying time. It's also a time when you will need others to help. Be open to it. I know my family found it difficult to receive the help.
I said it at the time and now again I want to thank anyone who came that day to help clean & offer support. I believe I went into shock and I have only certain experiences that I recall. So much of it is still a haze. But I know you were there and I thank you!